There’s something remarkable about what happens when we step outside our own struggles to help someone else. Even when life feels heavy or uncertain, serving others has a way of grounding us—reminding us that we still have something to give, that we still matter, and that even small acts of kindness can ripple outward in ways we may never fully see. I learned this firsthand during a season when I felt completely drained—physically, emotionally, and mentally. Everything in my personal...
If you’ve ever lost yourself in a painting, scribbled your thoughts in a journal, or spent an evening piecing together a craft project, you probably already know this: creativity has a way of helping us breathe again. It doesn’t matter whether you consider yourself an artist or not—what matters is the act of making, of bringing something new into the world, and in the process, finding something new within yourself. I still remember the year when everything in my life...
My family has a little cabin tucked away in the mountains that has become my family’s sanctuary. Surrounded by tall trees and nestled between two ponds bursting with cold, clear water, it’s a place teeming with life—deer grazing at dawn, birds singing overhead, squirrels darting about, and every so often, the awe (and thrill) of spotting a bear or even a cougar. For me, this space is more than just a getaway; it’s where I go to disconnect from the...
If you know me, you probably already know this, but just in case you don’t: I’m a K-pop fan. Not just a casual listener—a full-fledged “stan.” I love the music, the energy, the choreography, and the wild, creative world of K-pop fandom. There’s something truly special about being part of a group of people who are all-in, who love something so much that it brings them together across continents and cultures. Recently, I came across research comparing the emotional well-being...
My family has a little cabin tucked away in the mountains that has become my family’s sanctuary. Surrounded by tall trees and nestled between two ponds bursting with cold, clear water, it’s a place teeming with life—deer grazing at dawn, birds singing overhead, squirrels darting about, and every so often, the awe (and thrill) of spotting a bear or even a cougar. For me, this space is more than just a getaway; it’s where I go to disconnect from the...
If you know me, you probably already know this, but just in case you don’t: I’m a K-pop fan. Not just a casual listener—a full-fledged “stan.” I love the music, the energy, the choreography, and the wild, creative world of K-pop fandom. There’s something truly special about being part of a group of people who are all-in, who love something so much that it brings them together across continents and cultures.Recently, I came across research comparing the emotional well-being of...
I consider myself a woman of faith, and I’ve noticed that when life feels overwhelming—whether it’s my own crisis or my child’s—leaning into my faith has provided a kind of peace and grounding I can’t find anywhere else. Sometimes, it’s a quiet prayer whispered in the dark. Other times, it’s a story handed down through generations or a ritual that gives structure to a chaotic day. What’s always struck me is that families from all backgrounds—Christian, Jewish, Muslim, spiritual-but-not-religious, or...
When I was young, every summer meant a week at Lake Powell. We’d pile onto our houseboat, ready for days of sun, swimming, and a little bit of adventure. Most years, it was all blue skies and calm water, but one summer when I was in high school, a terrible storm rolled in. The wind howled, rain lashed the deck, and thunder echoed off the canyon walls. I remember lying awake, feeling the boat rock and shift, convinced that at...
Once a child enters treatment or therapy, most parents imagine a sense of relief will follow. And in some ways, it does — the late-night worry, the constant what-ifs, the endless searching for answers. But another challenge begins too: the emotional aftermath.My friend told me this was the hardest part. Her daughter was safe, getting help — but she was angry. She blamed her mom for “sending her away.” Family members and friends had opinions. Some were supportive; others didn’t...
There’s a moment every parent dreads — the one where you realize that love alone might not be enough. You’ve tried talking, listening, setting boundaries, giving space, and showing up over and over again. And yet, something still feels broken.That was where my friend found herself. After months of watching her daughter slip further away — missing school, shutting down, and losing touch with the things she used to care about — she finally faced the question no parent wants...